Jill Bolte Taylor: My Stroke of Insight and How Inuit Parents Teach Kids To Control Their Anger

Left Hemisphere and the Right Hemisphere of the Brain

When you are by yourself this is what you have on your own.

These are the “we” inside of “me” which would you choose? Which do you choose? and when?

Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions — motion, speech, self-awareness — shut down one by one. An astonishing story.Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions — motion, speech, self-awareness — shut down one by one. An astonishing story.

Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions — motion, speech, self-awareness — shut down one by one.
An astonishing story.
[https://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight]

Right Brain Hemisphere = Peace

The more you use your right hemisphere the more peace you will project into the world and the more peaceful our planet will be. And that is an idea worth spreading.

Adults can can help the right brain hemisphere get strong and work well in children.

How to help keep children from getting angry? How Inuit Parents Teach Kids To Control Their Anger.

Moms mention one golden rule: Don’t shout or yell at small children.
The culture views scolding — or even speaking to children in an angry voice — as inappropriate. Parents who control their own anger are helping their children learn to do the same. The Inuit’s no-yelling policy is the secret of raising kids that internalized discipline for themselves.

How The Inuit Teach Kids Not To Get Angry
How To Discipline Your Kids Without Yelling
The PURPOSE OF THE STORY NOT JUST THE STORYTELLING ITSELF HAS TO FOCUS ON EXPLAINING SOMETHING THAT IS UPSETTING FOR THE CHILD. FIGURING THAT OUT — SPEAKING TO THAT THING – THAT IS WHAT MAKES CHILDREN CALMER.

https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2019/03/13/685533353/a-playful-way-to-teach-kids-to-control-their-anger

Briggs quickly realized something remarkable was going on in these families: The adults had an extraordinary ability to control their anger.
“They never acted in anger toward me, although they were angry with me an awful lot,” Briggs told the Canadian Broadcasting Corp. in an interview.

Even just showing a smidgen of frustration or irritation was considered weak and childlike, Briggs observed. By contrast, Briggs seemed like a wild child, even though she was trying very hard to control her anger. “My ways were so much cruder, less considerate and more impulsive,” she told the CBC. “[I was] often impulsive in an antisocial sort of way. I would sulk or I would snap or I would do something that they never did.”

Technique #HowToDisciplineChildren?  #WeUseStorytellingToDiscipline

Using #oralStories passed down from one generation of Inuit to the next, designed to sculpt kids’ behaviors in the moment. Sometimes even save their lives.

1) Teach kids to stay away from the ocean, where they could easily drown Instead of yelling, “Don’t go near the water!”
Inuit parents take a pre-emptive approach and tell kids a special story that will explain the consequence of getting lost and separated from the family. The story is about what’s inside the water.
“It’s the sea monster,” Jaw says, with a giant pouch on its back just for little kids. “If a child walks too close to the water, the monster will put you in his pouch, drag you down to the ocean and adopt you out to another family,” Jaw says.

2) Not  listening to Parents story ear inspections  because too much ear wax

3) Don’t ask before taking food, long fingers could reach out and grab you

There is no scolding, no punishment, no time outs, instead the parents waited for a calm peaceful moment and begin to

TELL A STORY -PARENT’S PUT ON A PLAY – A LITTLE DRAMA

The Parent would reenact the child having a tantrum including the consequences of their behavior.

During the Drama the parent always had a playful fun tone.
And the drama typically started by trying to provoke the child . Now the child has to think……. what should i do? Should I hit Mom? so if they do take the rock and hits Mama she reenacts the consequences and keep the kid thinking …. did the child want to hurt mom? did they want to hurt mom’s feelings?

Parent’s keep putting on these little plays until the child understands and learns why not to hit.

Plays – are the little dramas parents use to teach kids to keep their cool, to be strong mentally and emotionally. Not to react and be provoked easily. Kids get practice internalizing control over their anger because once you’re angry it’s hard to stop.

THE OPPOSITE OF A CALM, SECURE, CULTURE IS CAUSED BY THE RADICAL RIGHT WING MEDIA STORY TELLERS

MEDIA  Oral Story Tellers Exerts in Hate Speech

Jen Senko: How Right Wing Media Divided the Country and Brainwashed My Dad – 2/19/17 New York Society for Ethical Culture

Fox News: Radical Right Wing Media divided the country.
Roger Ails Fake News Propaganda Fair and Balanced, if you tell a lie big enough people will believe it.

HATE EXPERTS #FOXNEWS 14:18 Right Wing Conspiracy started with Goldwaters loss to Johnson in 1964 beginning with “alternative facts” complaint which snowballed into Fake News.
1970 Roger Ailes at 27 years old was hired to package Nixon with Fair and Balanced GOP Friendly News  as a propaganda strategy – do their thinking for them and the blue print for Fox News.
1971 Memo from Powel  Heritage foundation planned free market ideology  attack on the free enterprise system.
Fairness Doctrine — Power of Media / Roger Ailes Limbaugh Story Teller
The  consequences of mass media #OralStories  #FoxRadio Brain Washing,  #Propaganda,  #FoxNews.

Do Republicans want to you angry? Do they want you to hurt others?

Fox News / Rush Limbaugh national right wing radio unofficial leader of the republican party to enilate the truth so you don’t know what to believe. Expert Propaganda Story Tellers exist to make you angry.

Murdock, Limbaugh created 2 hemispheres mainstream corporate media, and 97% of talk radio is far right wing because they sell fear and anger!

Master language experst  frame issues

What scares people the most “alt right” “obama care” “the death tax” “entitlements”  the working class don’t understand they have been manipulated.

Corporate Media doesn’t combat the lies the right wing puts out daily.

It never stops it is always engaging your left hemisphere, that is how brain washing works. Turn off the 24/7/365 “news” you have a better chance of cooling down and getting more control over yourself.

Propaganda brain washing techniques